Oh Romeo ku, Oh Juliet ku 2

February 27th, 2008 by berchmanthegreat

Suatu hari ce gw cerita kalo dia pernah bilang ke temennya:

"Iya, sama Sigit tuh, nerima 1 sms aja, seakan2 dapet kiriman buket bunga tiap hari…"

So, terbukti kan kemampuan gw dalem menggaet cewek??? Ngahahahaha…(btw, murid gw, si andra gimana kabarnya ya? Hehe.Piss, man!)
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Ok, cukup ttg gw. Setelah mengembara sekian lama, mencari ilmu, sekaligus mempraktekkan kata2 romantis gua, terbitlah nih posting: sekuel kedua dari Romeo and Juliet untuk memenuhi permintaan banyak klien gw. Wakakakak.
So, enjoy, guys!

Co: If this is only a crush, then I don’t know if I could take the real thing.

Co: Loving you is like breathing…how can I stop?

Co: I don’t wish to be everything to everyone, but I would like to be something to someone

Co: It’s not that I can’t live without you, It’s that I don’t even want to try

Co: I never knew how to worship until I knew how to love you

Co: Sometimes at night
When I look up to the sky
I start to think of you
And then ask myself why
Why do I love you?
I think and smile
Because I know the list could run on for miles

Co: Your voice dropped by and sang a lullaby,
and it was then I knew just what to do.
I’d fall asleep and then,
I’d dream of you again.

Co: your love is a fruit,
Tender & sweet
Its taste is wonderful
its seeds are blossom in me…

That’s all. Hmm..Itu kebanyakan ngutip sih. Sebenernya, yang asli bikinan gw banyak. Tapi belum gw kumpulin. Dan saking banyaknya, begitu gw kasih ke ce gw, langsung gw apus. Ntar deh gw inget2 lagi. Tunggu aja sekuel ketiga Romeo and Juliet, ok? Keep tuned in!;)

Andra and the girl

February 26th, 2008 by berchmanthegreat

Lagi2 kisah ini bercerita tentang seorang anak manusia bernama Andra (nama masih dirahasiakan). Suatu hari, si Andra berjalan-jalan menyusuri nama2 yang ada di sebuah list yang berisi daftar email cewek2 yang bakal dia add di YM. Buat km2 yg gak tau, YM itu adalah sebuah aplikasi buat mendukung proses belajar mengajar mahasiswa. Iya. Di kelas, pake YM. Di lab, pake YM. Kerja, pake YM.

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Si Andra

Alkisah suatu ketika, gw tiba2 di buzz dan dikagetkan dengan sebuah message dari si Andra:

Andra: si anast online tuh
Cowok ganteng(gue): sapa tuh?
Andra: Anastasia
Cowok ganteng(gue): gak kenal gue.
Andra: bukannya waktu itu u yang kasih gw ym nya?
Cowok ganteng(gue): bukan
Andra: Ya udahlah
Cowok ganteng(gue): minta
Andra: apaan?
Cowok ganteng(gue): ymnya
Andra: (ketawa2 najong)
Cowok ganteng(gue): setan…

Beberapa menit kemudian.
Andra: Git…
Cowok ganteng(gue): apeh?
Andra: Gue dicuekin
Cowok ganteng(gue): (ketawa2 ganteng)
Andra: Shit, man
Cowok ganteng(gue): makanya sini. gw coba
Andra: Ya udah nih.1_388861321l..(ngasih ym nya si anast)

Si Anast

Seketika itu juga gw add seorang yang namanya anast itu. Gak berapa lama, add gw di approve. Mata gw langsung tertuju ke display image si Anast. Sedetik kemudian: *senyum2 tampan.
Yah. Cantik banget…walau pun ga secantik ce gw.:D

Cerita gw singkat, intinya gw basa/i buat kenalan. Terus, nasib gw sama seperti Andra. Dicuekin.

Besoknya, si Andra curhat ke gw, krn stres banget dia dicuekin sama tuh cewek. Iseng2, ide mulia gw buat ngrjain si andra tiba2 muncul. Gua ajak ngobrol lah si Anast. Begini kira2 pembicaraan kita.

Cowok ganteng(gue): Hi. Lagi sibuk gak? Sorry. This may sound ridiculous. Tapi kalo u ga keberatan, gw pengen kenal u lebih jauh. Tapi gak macem2 kok. Just friend.
Anast: hoi! Iya. Gapapa kok. Ym kan buat cari kenalan.

Dan pembicaraan kita teruskan sampe kurang lebih 15 menitan. Setiap pembicaraan gw, gw posting ke Andra.
Cowok ganteng(gue): ni dra. *paste conversation gw sama si Anast
Andra: taek!!Gw masih di cuekin.
Cowok ganteng(gue): kadang kita emang harus menghadapi persaingan dan pasrah terhadap jeleknya tampang(nunjuk andra)

Sebelum pulang, gw sempetin blg gini ke si Anast:
Cowok ganteng(gue): Udah pulang kantor ni. Cabut dulu ya. Btw, last thing. U’re beautiful, though.
Anast: *nyengir. Iya!Thengsss!!Duduuu..

lagi2 gw copy paste pembicaraan ini ke si andra.
Cowok ganteng(gue): *copy paste
Andra: SHIT!!

Apa daya. Gw cm bisa ngakak…Sori dra. Maafkan ketampanan temanmu ini.

Tadinya gw mo copy paste kisah gw sama Andra ini ke ceweknya dia. Cuma, berhubung gw teman yang baik hati, gw urungkan niat mulia gw itu…

Salam tampan!

Jakarta, Mati Listrik, dan Kucing

February 21st, 2008 by berchmanthegreat

Pagi hari gw buka email. Ada posting di milis dengan berita mengejutkan. Jakarta-Tangerang bakal mati listrik dari hari Kamis sampe Jumat, dari jam 8-5 sore. Kontan aja gw seneng. Monyetnya, kantor gw gak ada gen set. Jadi, kalo mati lampu, gak bisa ngapa2in.
Maka, dimulailah kisah detektip2an ge.
Detik.com.
Kompas.
Google
YM.

Beberapa jam berlalu…
Jarum jam mendekati pukul 13.00.
tepatnya 2.50..
Nothing happened.
2.55
belum terjadi apa2.
3.00
Masih belum.
3.15
KAMPRET!GAK MATI2 LAMPUNYA!!KETIPU NEH GW!

4.00
Andra(nama samaran) kirim ym: "man, gw dirumah"
Gua: "ngapain"
Andra: "kantor gw mati lampu"
Gua: "…"
Andra: "git!"
Gua: "…"
Andra: "oi!dicuekin gw!"

4.02 - posting ini ditulis
gw: "…" berdoa biar mati lampu besok…
fiuh…

Hah?kucingnya?iya.emang gak ada nyambungnya…

Oh Romeo ku, Oh Juliet ku…

January 22nd, 2008 by berchmanthegreat

Anda sedang jatuh cinta?
Anda sedang pdkt dengan seorang wanita?
Pacar/gebetan anda ulang tahun?
Anda ingin dianggap romantis?
Anda diare?Kena sipilis?(Lho?!)

Moga2 tutorial ini membantu anda.

Co: Papa kamu astronot ya?
Ce: Bukan
Co: Kalo gitu, maling?
Ce: Enak aja!Apaan sih?!
Co: Sori, soalnya, bingung aja. Kok papa mu bisa nyuri bintang di langit dan naro di mata kamu

Co: kamu tuh bisa aja ya
Ce: Bisa apa?
Co: Bisa terlihat sangat cantik setiap hari

Co: Kamu kok gak capek sih?
Ce: Hah? Kenapa? Capek apa?
Co: Gak capek lari-lari seharian di pikiranku

Co: Kamu tau gak kenapa berlian begitu indah?
Ce: Hmm..enggak. Kenapa?
Co: Gapapa kok kalo km gak tau. Yang penting kamu tau kalo aku sayang sama kamu

Co: Kamu lagi sibuk gak?
Ce: Gak tuh.
Co: Bantuin dong
Ce: Bantuin apa?
Co: bikin peta?
Ce: Peta? Peta apaan?
Co: Peta menuju hati kamu…

Co: (ngeliat punggung cewek)
Ce: Apaan sih?!
Co: Gak papa. Heran aja. Baru kali ini aku liat bidadari gak ada sayapnya…

Co: Hati2 loh, lagi rawan banjir
Ce: Hah serius?
Co: Iya. Tapi gapapa kok. Kalo hati kamu hanyut, biar aku yang nangkep

Co: Awas, kamu bakal dikejar2 polisi
Ce: Kenapa?
Co: Soalnya kamu udah nyuri hatiku

Co: Tau gak persamaan matahari sama rasa sayang aku ke kamu?
Ce: Gak
Co: Sama2 terbit setiap hari sampai kiamat

Co: Kamu tau kenapa manusia dikasih 2 mata?
Ce: mmm…gak tau tuh
Co: Supaya mereka bisa lebih banyak melihat. Kamu tau kenapa manusia dikasih 2 telinga?
Ce: Supaya mereka bisa lebih banyak mendengar?
Co: Tul. Tapi kenapa manusia dikasih cuma 1 hati?
Ce: Um…ga tau…
Co: Supaya hati yang satunya lagi buat ditemuin, dan aku udah nemuin itu di kamu…

Co:
You can fall from a tree
You can fall from the sky
You can fall from a star
But the best way to fall
is in love with me…

Co:
Kiss me, and you will see stars
Love me, and I will give them to you

Co:
thinking u is my hobby
missing u is my job
protecting u is my duty

loving u…
is my life…

Cukup yah. Lain kali gw posting lagi. Itu gua sadur dari berbagai sumber dengan penyesuaian secukupnya. Lumayan berguna loh! Gua udah buktiin. Suatu hari ww praktekin ke satu orang cewek. Tatap2an muka. Gw tau persis, dia senyum2 tersipu2 gitu. Gw tau dia pasti suka.
Yang gua gak tau…
Dia nengok kiri. Terus muntah.

Temen gw juga ada yang make kata2 kaya gini buat ceweknya. Sebut saja Andra(nama samaran). Si andra ini suatu ketika minta kata2 gombal buat ceweknya yg ultah.
Andra: yg pendek git, kalimatnya.
Gw: "kalo kamu bunga, aku jadi kumbangnya" (dengan ketawa2 cekikikan karena ini sumpah deujubile, gombal abis)
Andra: (gak bales)
Semenit kemudian gw sms dia.
gw: "gimana dra"
andra: "gw pake kata2 itu git"

gw ngakak.

 

Enjoy!

B 5310 H

January 16th, 2008 by berchmanthegreat

Bukan. Judul itu bukan password kompie gw. Hah? No telp? Bukan. Tanggal lahir? Apalagi…

Ya! Itu nomor polisi motor honda supra yang gw pake ke kantor tiap hari. Terhitung mulai 3 Januari silam (wuih, ’silam’), gw resmi memulai magang gw di sunter, Webaxis International, PT. Iya, gw juga kagak ngerti kenapa PT sama nama perusahaan dibalik2 gitu.

Sejak gw naek motor jauh2 ke kantor, gw nyadarin sesuatu :
motor+kantor = tanggung jawab baru.
Rumus jenius ini gw turunkan dari kata2 nya si spidey "with great power comes great responsibility". Dan sejak gw nulis posting inilah gw tau kalo power bisa diartikan sebagai motor+kantor dlm bahasa indo.

Eniwei, keseharian gw ke kantor dimulai dengan hari2 awal yang mengesankan. Misal:
Hari ketiga gw naek motor dengan santai, memacu si supra hitam dengan pelan. Sambil goyang2 niru schumacher, yang udah pasti kalo orang liat gw bakal dikira pembalap yang jadi gila gara2 geger otak karena kecelakaan pas balapan, gw dengan pede jalan dengan kecepatan 30 km an/jam. Tiba2 mobil di depan gw, ngerem mendadak! Gw panik! Dan setelah menyadari jarak mobil tersebut 100 m di depan gw, panik gw reda. Pas jarak sudah tinggal 10 m, gw dengan santai mencet rem tangan. Secara gw yakin supra gw pasti ada cakramnya, berdasarkan pengetahuan yang gw liat di tivi2. Rem kepencet. Motor perlahan berhenti. Dan ….
dan..
dan…
si supra tersohor ngesot ke kiri. gw jatuh. ya, gw jatuh. Sekali lagi, biar dramatis, gw jatuh bersama si motor. Dari sini gw dapet pengetahuan baru lagi: motor jalan 30km + rem mendadak dengan rem cakram = cinta tanah air dengan mencium jalanan.

Hari kedua:
Sebelum berangkat nyokap bilang: "bawa sendal aja git, buat cadangan kalo kebanjiran"
gw dengan mantabh bilang "enggak usah, mi!"
Gw pergi dengan si supra hitam. Saat melewati daerah banjir, gw memacu motor dengan santai. Kecepatan 20 km, gigi 2. Masuk ke air, masih santai. Masih di air, kecepatan 10 km, gigi 1, masih santai. Terus ke dalam air, kecepatan 5 km, gigi 1, masih santai. Pas gw sadar kecepatan menurun, gw gas tuh motor. Dan saat inilah kejadian berlangsung, si motor gak maju2. Gua bingung. Ternyata mesin motor gw mati. Dan, berakhirlah kecemerlangan sepatu sebelah kanan gw gara2 terendam banjir.

Hari keempat:
Hari keempat, hari sabtu. Pagi cerah, hati riang. Gw pergi agak siang, berangkat jam 7.
Sambil bernyanyi2 dan menarik perhatian tiap orang yang gw lewatin, gw memacu motor dengan biasa.
Sampai di suatu tempat, jalan agak berbatu, tiba2 motor gw ikutan goyang2, seakan2 mengikuti gw nyanyi. Gua berhenti. Si motor berhenti. Gw nengok belakang, dan ternyata gak ada tali yang ngikat motor gw. gw nengok ke ban belakang. Bagus. ban si supra hitam bocor.

Kesimpulan buat kalian yang bawa motor ke kantor:
mulailah terbiasa dengan bawa mobil atau angkot.

bengkoang goreng

December 10th, 2007 by berchmanthegreat

Beberapa hari yang lalu, khususnya hari Sabtu dan Minggu, gw berpartisisapi (tssaah!!) dalam sebuah event orang-orang muda Katolik se KAJ di Bogor. Yah, sebagai makhluk Katolik yang masih muda, sudah saatnya gua turut menyingsingkan lengan baju, mengencangkan sabuk, dan turun ke bawah, bekerja bersama rekan-rekan muda lainnya untuk menjadi penggerak kebangkitan orang-orang muda ke arah yang lebih positif, demi kemajuan bangsa, negara, dan dunia. Uooh!

Gua ke sana bareng anak-anak mudika Paroki, sekitar 600 an orang. Betul. Dibagi 100. 6 orang yang terdiri dari 2 orang mudiki (baca:mudika cewek) dan 8 biji mudika (baca: 4orang mudika cowok). Mereka-mereka yang ikut adalah Mudiki 1, Mudiki 2, Mudika 1, Mudika 2, Gue, dan Bang Jonner (nama samaran). Maka berangkatlah kita dengan penuh birahi, gairah, tenaga, semangat 45, damai, dan sejahtera.

Setelah acara selesai, kita mampir di kota Bogor, di pinggiran alun-alun kota Bogor. Judulnya: beli oleh-oleh buat diri sendiri. Gua sama Bang Jonner tertarik sama sebuah kios yang menjual bengkoang. Dengan pede, hasrat, pis, love, and respect, kita mulai menawar bengkoang itu.
BJ(Bang Jonner) : Seberaha, mang?! (logat Sunda, FYI, nama lengkap BJ: Jonner Ricardo Siregar)
Mang-mang Bengkoang : 10.000 seikat, dek!
BJ : Mahal bang! Gak mau ah!
Mang-mang bengkoang : ya udah, 20.000 tiga lah
BJ : Gak mau. 20.000 empat, boleh gak?
Mang-mang bengkoang : ya udah lah.
BJ : (senyum-senyum, ngelirik ke gua)
Gua: (senyum-senyum, ngelirik ke dia)
Intinya kita berdua bangga, karena harga turun begitu drastis.Dari 10.000 satu, jadi 20.000 empat.
Gua liat Mudiki 1. Bang Jonner liat Mudiki 1 dan 2. Mudiki 1 dan 2 ngeliat kita.
Gua bilang: sini aja mbak, 20.000 empat. Bang Jonner, masih senyum-senyum najong. Mudiki 2 senyum-senyum. Mudiki 1 bilang, “Disini 10.000 empat”! Saat iatu juga senyum najong bang Jonner hilang. Gua masuk mobil. Bang Jonner masuk mobil. Kita hening.

Kisah gak waras kita selanjutnya diawali saat gua dan kelima makhluk muda Katolik separoki lainnya beranjak pulang ke Cikarang. Lebih spesifik lagi, gua sama bang Joner. Kita turun di depan pintu tol, depan Carefour Cikarang, setelah diantar oleh salah seorang umat Paroki, pendamping Mudika yang baik hati, dari Bogor ke Cikarang. Lalu, gua dan Bang Jonner melanjutkan perjalanan dengan angkot. Sekedar informasi, gua dan Bang Jonner dengan pedenya menenteng sebuah plastik berisi: dodol garut 3 box, kue moci kacang 4 bungkus (yang satu bungkusnya berisi 4 kotak), 2 ikat bengkoang bangkok, dan 1 kantong plastik lain yang berisi dua pasang alas kaki(baca: sepatu dan sendal jepit).

Di angkot, kita menyusun rencana buat mencari cara yang tepat untuk memperkosa si bengkoang(baca: dikupas dengan paksa, dan dimakan). Saat inilah, ketika matahari beranjak tenggelam, saat sang dewi malam mulai tampak, suara klakson mobil dan suara mobil berderu-deru, ketika angkot yang kita naiki melaju perlahan, ketika muka kita memerah menahan kebelet…sebuah ide brilian muncul dalam benak kita.Kira-kira beginilah isi percakapan kita waktu itu:
Sigit: Bang…
BJ (Bang Jonner) : kenapa?
Sigit : kebelet…
BJ : sama, Git!
Sigit : Jadi, gimana? Diapain bengkoangnya? (Iya, gua tau ini kagak nyambung.)
BJ : enaknya sih dimakan pake sambel rujak gitu git. Wah, dahsyat tuh!
Sigit : Dapetnya gimana bang?
BJ : Di resto plaza pasti ada lah yang punya stok gula merah sama cabe.
Sigit : O iya yah.
BJ : Iya…
Sigit : (diam, merenung)…
BJ : (diam, merenung)…
Sigit : bang…
BJ : Apa?
Sigit : Kenapa gak digoreng?
BJ : hmm..
Sigit : (penuh semangat karena nemu ide brilian) Coba bayangin bang! Dari sekian banyak tukang gorengan, mereka jual tempe goreng, tahu goreng, singkong goreng. Tapi gak ada yang jual bengkoang goreng! Padahal kan sama-sama umbi..!! Kita coba bang! Pasti enak!! Gimana, jenius yah saya?!
Sesaat kemudian BJ bilang:
BJ : Git,..
Sigit: Iya?
BJ : Lo tuh idiot…
Gue diem, dia diem…
Matahari turun..
Sore menjelang..
Kita berjalan pulang tanpa suara…

The Ethics of Euthanasia: Several Reasons Why Euthanasia Should not Be Legalized

December 5th, 2007 by berchmanthegreat

One of the most important public debating topics nowadays is the issues of euthanasia and assisted suicide. As every particular issue in the world, pros and contras arise due to this controversial matter. Some nations accept the act of euthanasia and assisted suicide legally and morally by stating them in their law. Conversely, some organization, independent social and conservative religious communities, and other countries strictly affirmed their acts against everything about euthanasia and assisted suicide.
The executions of such acts have been widely spread all around the world, because of several reasons or excuses. Moreover, some cases are brought to the adjudication. However, the criminology of euthanasia and assisted suicide still becomes a hot subtopic in every deliberation and discussion.
Some arguments may convey an acceptance of the act of euthanasia and assisted suicide. Unbearable pain, rights to commit suicide, and the opinion about people that should not be forced to be alive, are some motives that support the argumentative thought of those who agree with euthanasia and assisted suicide. However, intensive research and philosophical study also give several reasons why euthanasia and assisted suicide are considered unethical.
Euthanasia, also often called as mercy killing, comes from eu, which means beautiful, good, or gracefully and with dignity, and thanatos, that means dies. Etymologically, euthanasia can be understood as die gracefully and with dignity. Some sources say that euthanasia is the practice of voluntarily having a medically-assisted death. Some articles also state that euthanasia is the term used for the practice of ending a life so as to release an individual from an incurable disease or intolerable suffering. In addition, The American Heritage Dictionary defines it as the action of killing an individual for reasons considered to be merciful. All of those references imply that euthanasia and assisted suicide acts must be initiated by the person who wishes to commit suicide.
Euthanasia is divided into several types, which are:
• Passive euthanasia (Hastening the death of a person by altering some form of support and letting nature take its course. For instance, removing life support equipment, stopping medical procedures, medications, etc)
• Active Euthanasia (This involves causing the death of a person through a direct action, in response to a request from that person.)
• Involuntary euthanasia (The term used to describe the killing of a person who has not explicitly requested aid in dying, most often done to patients who are in a Persistent Vegetative State and will probably never recover consciousness.)
Euthanasia is different from assisted suicide. Both of them are distinguished from the last act, the act without which death will not occur. If the act is done by a third party that on purpose causing the patient’s death, it is considered as euthanasia. For example, giving a lethal injection to the patient or putting a plastic bag to wrap up the patient’s head to suffocate him/her. If the last act is done voluntarily by the patient, then the term assisted suicide is used. In this case, the term Physician Assisted Suicide (PAS) is used. The example of this act is the patient who drinks the drugs that have been prepared by the doctor which could cause him/her death. Another example is the patient that presses a switch that triggers a fatal injection after the doctor has put an injection needle through the patient’s vein.
Both euthanasia and assisted suicide are judged as legal in some countries such as Oregon, Netherlands, and Belgium. Their juridical law specifically states the legalization of the acts. Oregon legalizes the act of euthanasia, while Netherlands and Belgium give legal permission of both acts practices. Due to the reason of performing actions against the legalization of euthanasia and assisted suicide, some organizations that oppose them did some research and philosophical studies in ethics point of view, showing that euthanasia and assisted suicide are unethical.
The first reason why euthanasia and assisted suicide are unethical they are more about the right to kill instead of the right to die. Ethically, euthanasia and assisted suicide should be done only on patient’s request. However, one major goal of euthanasia supporters is to make euthanasia and assisted suicide considered as medical treatment. In US, a representative decision is often made as if the patient had made it. This means that, if euthanasia is legal, a court challenge could result in a finding that the patient’s representative could make a request for death on behalf of a child or an adult who are not able to make such decision. In the Netherlands, a survey sponsored by the government demonstrates that 0.8% of all deaths in the Netherlands were euthanasia deaths that happened without a direct request from the patient. Furthermore, in 1995, Dutch doctors reported ending the lives of 948 patients in the same condition.
Suppose that the patient’s representatives were not permitted to make the decision for the patient and that doctors did not end patients’ lives without their request. Some fact still remains that, even unintended, pressure would still be unavoidable. One of the facts is the case of an elderly woman who died under Oregon’s assisted suicide law:
Kate Cheney, 85, had been suffering from early dementia. After she was diagnosed with cancer, her own physician declined to provide a lethal prescription for her. Counseling was needed to determine if she was capable of making health care decisions.
A psychiatrist found that Mrs. Cheney was illegible for assisted suicide since she was not explicitly pushing for it, her daughter seemed to be coaching her to do so, and she couldn’t remember important names and details of even a recent hospital where she stayed.
Mrs. Cheney was then taken to a psychologist who said she was competent but possibly under the influence of her daughter. Finally, an ethicist who was overseeing her case determined that she was qualified for assisted suicide, and the lethal drugs were prescribed.
In fact, the legalization of euthanasia and assisted suicide are not about giving rights to the person to end their own life because of their terminal illness. Instead, they are about changing public policy so that doctors or others can directly and intentionally end or participate in ending patient’s life.
The second reason that supports the contras of euthanasia illegalization is because it does not guarantee the certain patients can die peacefully, without any pain. The legalizing euthanasia and assisted suicide only allows the use of plastic bags and carbon monoxide to kill vulnerable people. Some medical people said only lethal injection or suffocation with a plastic bag could ensure death. Other medical treatment for euthanasia and assisted suicide like using pills is illegible because it could cause complication.
In Netherlands, for many years, the Royal Dutch Association of Pharmacy has provided prescribing guidelines to prevent problems as well as to increase the efficiency of euthanasia and assisted suicide. Nevertheless, there are still a number of complications and problems occurred (lethal injections often caused violent convulsions and muscle contractions).
After Patrick Matheny received his lethal dose of drugs from the Oregon Health Sciences University via Federal Express, he delayed taking them for four months. On the day of his death, he experienced difficulty. His brother in law, Joe Hayes, said he had to “help” Matheny die. According to Hayes, “It doesn’t go smoothly for everyone. For Pat, it was a huge problem. It would not have worked without help”.
Even Dutch euthanasia activists admit these difficulties, stating in their own euthanasia society publication that, there are problems of complications in one out of five case of euthanasia or assisted suicide.
The fact that euthanasia is a rejection of the importance and value of human life become the next reason why it should not be legalized. The euthanasia devotees often said that it is permissible to take human life under some circumstances such as self defense. However, they miss the point that in such thing called as self defense, when one kills another, there are innocent life to be saved, either their own life or someone else’s. In euthanasia, obviously, no one’s life is being saved. Likewise, euthanasia also deceives the most natural and basic ethical instinct that human has; instinct to live. Euthanasia throws away the human needs to live and survive. Instead, it influences someone to end their live.
Another reason is that euthanasia quite the contrary from most people opinion, about it becoming the only way to relieve excruciating pain.
During a radio debate, T. Patrick Hill (the board of directors of the New York Citizens’ Committee on Health Care Decisions) stated that continuing to prohibit euthanasia would, in some circumstances, abandon the patient to a horrifying death. He acknowledged that even under the best circumstances active euthanasia is indeed a troubling issue. But he said, “I do think there are very restricted circumstances where, in fact, it is the more humane thing to do rather than not to do. Because, not to do it would, as I say, be to abandon the patient to unbearable suffering, whether emotional suffering or physical suffering.”
Such claim fails to recognize that generally all pain can be eliminated or reduced significantly by providing proper treatment. Indeed, sometimes there are some national and international scandals that so many people do not get enough pain control. However, killing, or euthanasia is not the answer for them. The solution is to hold better education of health care professionals on these crucial issues, to expand access to health care, and to inform patients about their rights as consumers.
Theologically, euthanasia also often has been rejected as a violation of the sanctity of human life. Particularly, some Christians argue that human life ultimately belongs to God, so that humans should not make the choice to end life. Orthodox Judaism takes basically the same approach. Islam categorically forbids and refuses all forms of suicide and any action that may help others to kill themselves. In Bhuddism, a monk or nun would be expelled from Buddhist monastic community if they assist others in their death includes circumstances of the terminally ill patients. Accordingly, some theologians and other religious thinkers consider euthanasia as sinful acts.

All previous reasons from all difference points of view have depicted the dangers of euthanasia and that is why there are only three countries in the world today where it is legal. Some real cases also bear those reasons that surely affirm why euthanasia should not be legalized. Almost all societies, even non-religious ones, have refused the legalization of euthanasia, and likewise, consider it as a crime. It is interesting to wait for the development of the issues, on how it will potentially give more influence to all aspects of human life in the future.

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Siluet Pesta di Atas Cakrawala

December 4th, 2007 by berchmanthegreat

Datangkah denting-denting kehampaan menyapa
Lalu berlarian menyapu setiap cumulunimbus yang terpana
Menyingkirku lalu sepi

Tak terhitung jejak pengembaraan
Tak satu jua tiba

Halo!
Vena masih mengalirkan darah segar dari jantung ke seluruh arteri
Dan setetes keluar
Dan dua tetes keluar
Menyeruak ke dalam tetanahan gersang

Inikah analogi dan pedagogis klimaks dari serpihan-serpihan kotoran yang tak terhapus
dan ditebus oleh peluh-peluh yang melumuri inci demi inci pasak biadab!

Bebauan masih menyebar dari Woyla
Memicu stimulus kompleks memasuki setiap bagian adrenalin

Hari itu masih sangat sore
Jejak-jejak masih terlihat
Bayang-bayang memudar
Sepi ada
Cakrawala di atas pesta
Tempatku berjalan…

Ah, bintang timur menuntunku
Malam ini gelap tak tampak

Johanes Berchman Sigit Noviandi
Untuk seorang yang hilang, dan muncul tak tiba-tiba

yess!!!inilah responsibilitas dan resiko menjadi seorang mahasiswa (ganteng)!!

November 29th, 2007 by berchmanthegreat

Betul! Kemarin malem lagi2 gua merasakan beratnya tanggung jawab menjadi seorang mahasiswa. Tersebutlah suatu project buat subject yang berjudul: Computer Graphic and Animation. Salah satu bagian dari project tersebut adalah membuat film animasi selama kurang lebih 2 menit pake program laknat yang namanya flash.
Dengan penuh minat dan gairah gua memulai mengerjakan tugas bersama temen2 kelompok gua, Bandot (nama samaran) dan Yulius (nama samaran). Jam2 pertama, semua berjalan lancar. Hati riang gembira. Wajah berseri2, senyum merekah.
Jam2 kedua, kita mulai garuk2 kepala. Bandot mulai jalan mondar mandir (yang menandakan bahwa dia mulai gelisah karena lapar). Kita masih sedikit ngobrol2.
Jam2 ketiga, pas tengah malam, kita mulai senyum2 gak jelas yang sangat jelas menunjukkan kita sudah mulai digerayangi sindrome sakit jiwa. Akhirnya, beberapa menit kemudian, bandot masuk kamar. Yulius masuk kamar. Gua masih duduk. Beberapa menit kemudian lagi, lampu kamar mati. Mereka tidur.Gua masih melek. Dengan penuh semangat, motivasi, inspirasi, pis, kuaci, teh manis, gua berkutat dengan flash animation laknat ini.
Akhirnya, jam 4 pagi, kerjaan selesai 40%. Akhirnya, jam 4 pagi, gua bisa shut down kompie dan tidur. Begitu baringan di tempat tidur, gua langsung terlelap. Pas tidur, gua mimpi: besok presentasi gua ancur…

hidup dosen…

November 29th, 2007 by berchmanthegreat

Dengan muka baru bangun tidur, semangat ‘45 (di kali -1), gairah buat tidur lagi, gua berangkat menuju kampus gw tercinta. Lengkap dengan tas tergantung di bahu kanan, converse favorit gw, sama fotokopian handout yang udah gw siapin, gua berjalan bersama temen rumah gw, Bandot (nama samaran), menyongsong kelas siang yang bikin males yang tajuknya: Computer Ethics and Society.

Abis makan di resto, kita memulai pengembaraan ke kampus. Melewati pepohonan, rerumputan hijau, ditambah tai kambing kecil2 hitam yang kalo gw masih kecil pasti gw udah teriak2 ke nyokap sambil bilang: Mi, kismis mi, kismis! Mau!!! sambil berpikir bahwa itu adalah kismis yang gak sengaja dijatuhin orang.

Sampe kampus, kita naik tangga. Sampe depan workshop. Gua duduk. Temen2 yang laen duduk. Jam nunjuk 1.30 siang. Gua mulai gelisah. Temen2 mulai gelisah. Jam nunjuk 1.45. Gua liat jam. Temen2 liat jam. Jam nunjuk 2.00. Gua masih duduk. Teman2 udah ambil tas, siap2 pulang. Gua masih setia nunggu. Class liason, Adit (nama samaran) masuk. Gua ngeliat dia. Dia ngeliat gua. Temen2 ngeliat dia. Dia ngomong: dosennya lupa kalo ada kelas hari ini. Gubrak!! Gua pingsan seketika setelah ngerencanain: minggu depan dosennya masuk, mahasiswanya pada gak ada kecuali adit, terus dia bilang,"mahasiswanya lupa kalo hari ini ada kelas, SIr!"….